We're back with our monthly, mid week mixer.

This June:

In conversation with Cain

Cain (aka @thatcainguy) is a multidisciplinary creative working across queer nightlife, live content creation, and storytelling. With over a decade of experience, he is known for his sharp emotional intelligence, magnetic vulnerability, and deeply intentional approach to every space he moves through. He has built a strong reputation for crafting bold, immersive projects that centre queer desire and subversive artistry..

Alongside this, Cain is also a performer and erotic content creator, using visual media to explore masculinity, kink, and pleasure as both resistance and art. Sober for over six years, he speaks openly about his recovery and lived experience, often weaving themes of resilience, connection, and queer joy into his work.

From lived experience, his talk explores the intersections of sex positivity, queerness, shame, and recovery, opening up honest conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and self trust. Together, we’ll explore how our relationships to desire, connection, and embodiment can shift through recovery and personal growth, alongside conversations around erotic confidence, presence, vulnerability, and reconnecting with ourselves and each other. Expect an open, thoughtful, and compassionate space that welcomes curiosity and reflection.

This is not a membership event and everyone is welcome

• Perfect for curious newcomers, community members, or anyone wanting to explore conversations around intimacy, queerness, recovery, relationships, and sex positivity
• A relaxed space to meet like minded people, listen, learn, and ask questions
• No dress code

• The talk will take place on the covered outdoor terrace
• Please bring something warm to wear
• The talk finishes at 9:15pm, followed by open socialising on the terrace

• Food and a full range of alcoholic and non alcoholic drinks will be available throughout the evening
• Club Love members receive 10% off food and drinks with a valid membership card

We reserve the right to refuse entry to anyone whose behaviour may negatively impact the comfort, safety, or atmosphere of the event