Strictly NO PHONES (you will be issued with a phone camera sticker on arrival).
S3X DUNGEON/ DARK ROOMS/ PLAY ROOMS/ GLRY HLS/ CRUISING AREAS
FIST is about freedom, confidence, and connection. a space where everyone can express themselves authentically.
Your outfit helps create the energy we all come for.
Think sportswear, underwear, jocks, harnesses, leather, rubber, latex, swimwear, or anything minimal and sexy.
You don’t have to be in full fetish gear — a vest, or shorts is totally fine.
The key is to feel good and match the vibe of a queer, dark, body-positive night.
avoid Everyday streetwear (like jeans, hoodies, or plain t-shirts) can feel out of place in this space. our door team might ask you to adjust your outfit to fit the mood.
It’s not about exclusion — it’s about keeping the atmosphere and comfort that makes FIST special.
FIST is a queer, sex-positive event for male-identifying guests of all backgrounds.
Whether you’re in leather, lycra, or less. confidence is the dresscode.
If you’re unsure, check our tag feed for inspo or ask our team at the door — we’ll help you out.
Sex positivity in broad terms is an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, encouraging sexual pleasure and experimentation.
This means that we do not insuit or denigrate attendees for their fetIsh or permit engaging in insults meant to belittle or denigrate someone's sexual preferences, sexuality, sexual expression, and presentation and romantic preferences.
Do not assume someone's sexual preference or pronouns. Always ask politely when introduced. We don't allow participants to wilfully misgender other participants and if you are found to be doing so, you will be removed from the event.
Zero Tolerance Policy
The following actions will result in immediate removal and a ban from future events:
Any form of discrimination
Consent violations
Harassment or stalking
Violence or threats
If you experience or witness any of the above, speak to our Welfare Team (Monitors).
Respect for Others
No insults based on fetish, sexuality, or gender expression.
Do not assume anyone’s sexual preference or pronouns.
Misgendering is not tolerated and will lead to removal.
Darkroom Etiquette
Darkrooms operate differently to playrooms; touching in the dark is expected upon entry.
You can remove unwanted hands and leave if uncomfortable.
Use the safeword “Avocado” if you need to disengage.
Playroom Rules
Playrooms are for play only, not chatting or forbidden activities.
Loitering in hallways is prohibited for safety reasons.
Playrooms close at 4 AM, with warnings given 30 minutes before.
Photography & Phones
Photography is strictly prohibited unless by the official photographer.
No phones allowed to maintain privacy and safety.
Official photographers will always ask for your consent.
Drug Safety
While we don’t encourage drug use, if you do, please stay safe and look out for each other.
If you feel unwell or concerned about someone else, speak to staff for help without judgement.