"Sell out warning! Come curious and leave your inhibitions at the door! The leading queer, sex-positive festival returns, transforming Lakota into a playground of earthly pleasures. By day, get stuck into educational talks, hands-on workshops and breathtaking performances. By night, Big Wett serves you steamy slut-pop bangers followed by Darkwah’s sensual house + plenty more pumping club heaters."
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A event held at Lakota on Sunday 24th May. The event starts at 13:00.
Celebrating sexual liberation, education, and creative expression. A space where sex-positivity, pleasure activism, and community empowerment collide in a dazzling showcase of artistry, knowledge, and unapologetic self-expression.
We take over Lakota and Coroner’s Court and turn it into a living, breathing playground. You enter through Coroner’s Court and from there it unfolds. Conversations spilling out of one room, workshops tucked into another, performances catching you off guard, music moving through the walls.
This is a space for curiosity. For learning something new about yourself, your body, your boundaries, your desires.
From 1pm to 7pm, the programme runs deep. Talks, workshops, art, performance. Pleasure politics. Body confidence. Kink literacy. Moments that challenge you, moments that crack you open a little, moments that just feel good. The full programme lands ahead of time so you can plan your path, but the magic is often in what you didn’t plan for. There is no dress code. Come as you are, or as who you want to be that day.
This is not a sex party. It is a sexy space, and that distinction matters. It means people feel safe to exist here. It means consent is understood, not negotiated on the fly. It means you can actually relax into the experience without someone trying their luck.
At 7pm, we gather properly. Big Wett takes us out of the daytime and into something looser, louder, sweatier. By 7.30pm, we shift fully into the afterparty, carrying that energy into the night until midnight.
The afterparty is limited capacity and ticketed separately. You can come for the day, the night, or both, but each has its own ticket. Afterparty doors close at 9pm.
There are vibe checks at the door, a full wellbeing team inside, and a shared understanding that this only works if we look out for each other. If you get it, you’ll feel it straight away.
Ourgasm centres queer community in all its forms. Allies are welcome when they come with awareness, respect, and a willingness to step into something that isn’t built around them.
Due to capacity limits across the site, you may not be able to experience everything. Multiple sessions run throughout the day, and arriving early gives you the best chance to catch what you’re excited about. Seating is limited and first come, first served.
Tickets are non refundable. This includes illness, changes in plans, or non attendance. We reserve the right to refuse entry to anyone whose presence or behaviour does not align with the space, without refund. Tickets can be transferred, but not resold above face value.